September
1999
Childhood,
A Time of Transformation
by
Joan Rist
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Childhood is a time of constant
change and transformation: from young children endlessly exploring their
world to teenagers trying to find their place in it. Often parents wonder
what they can do to help make the inevitable changes in their child’s
life more smooth and enjoyable.
Bob and Carol Markowitz were feeling
concern for their eighteen-year- old daughter Malla. She had been going
through the usual teenage syndrome of not feeling fulfilled and was
looking outside herself for fulfillment.
"Once the yagyas began we
noticed an almost immediate change," says Carol. "She became
more interested in her TM and TM-Sidhi programs, and felt a deepening of
her inner experience. It is amazing to us to see how much more
self-sufficient and blissful she’s become.
"We also saw good results from
the yagyas for our younger daughter, Marissa. During the summer, sometimes
she could feel impatient and angry over little things. With her yagyas
that melted away. Now she enjoys more comfort and balance."
Invincible Teenagers
Childhood has its challenges
at all ages, but the teenage years can be especially difficult. Dee
Johnson has discovered a new approach to nourish her two teenage boys.
"Maharishi Yagyas seem to
cushion our sons from the inevitable swings that come with being a
teenager. They seem happier, healthier, and more stable. They are
confident in their own invincibility, and feel they can do anything and
accomplish anything. No matter what comes up, they’re able to keep their
focus on the knowledge and the path to enlightenment."
Off to School
Raina often became anxious
about being separated from her
mother. She was very fearful and tearful if left with a sitter other than
a family member. Her mother, Patty Dollive, spent a lot of time at
"playdates" helping her daughter get used to new friends and
surroundings, and in the cloakroom at preschool attempting to gently wean
her away. Finally, Patty decided to have a Maharishi Yagya performance for
her daughter. "People who meet Raina today find it difficult to
believe she was once very shy," says Patty. "Raina’s yagya
coincided with Convocation Day at Maharishi School. Raina was very excited
to start kindergarten, but also very apprehensive. At convocation, we
parents sat with the kindergartners. Somewhere into the celebration, Raina
got off my lap and boldly walked over to her new teacher, whom she’d
only met the day before, and plunked herself into Mrs. Gritz’s lap! The
next day, Raina kissed me goodbye at the door and trotted up to class by
herself! She’s pretty much been comfortable in this way ever
since."
Every child has his or her own life
to live. As the years pass, parents find that they just have to keep
letting go as their children get more and more independent. Yet the
natural transformations that all children go through can still be
supported. Parents can let go, but at the same time continue to help their
children from a very deep level, nourishing those Laws of Nature that
guide these steps of progress. In this way, the Maharishi Yagya program
can help make each new step to adulthood more
balanced, secure and joyful.
For more information on the Maharishi
Yagya program, call 603-588-4235.
Joan Rist is an
administrator for the national office of the Maharishi Yagya program,
located in Antrim, New Hampshire. |